TOOLBOX
Are you looking for possible homework assignments, info-graphics, and worksheets?
In the Toolbox section of the PWU membership site, we house a variety of practical, ready-to-use resources for you and your domestic abuse intervention ministry.
How are you?: Assessing the Impact of Working with Survivors of Trauma
This handout was created in conjunction with the 2024 Master Class with Esther Smith.
Biblical and Theological Foundations for Understanding Domestic Abuse
This PPT was created in conjunction with the October 2021 Master Class with Greg Wilson.
Self-Care Assessment
This assessment was created in conjunction with the September 2021 Master Class with Eliza Huie and Esther Smith.
Sexual Support, Safety, & Stability Assessments
These assessments were created in conjunction with the August 2021 Master Class with David Dunham.
How Advocates Can Assist in Police-Led Domestic Abuse Interventions
This info graphic was created in conjunction with the July 2021 Master Class with Kathy Haecker
From Trauma to Peace
This info graphic was created in conjunction with the June 2021 Master Class with Eliza Huie.
How to Truly Help Victims of Domestic Abuse
This info graphic was created in conjunction with the May 2021 Master Class with Kathy Haecker.
Personality Disorders and Domestic Abuse Counseling
This content is intended to be used in conjunction with the April 2021 Master Class with Greg Wilson.
Red Flags in Marriage Counseling Infographic
This info graphic was created in conjunction with the March 2021 Master Class with Jonathon Holmes.
Domestic Abuse, Church Discipline, and the Westminster Larger Confession
This content is intended to be used in conjunction with the February 2021 Master Class with Ann Maree Goudzwaard.
Incident Journal
This content is intended to be used in conjunction with January 2021 Master Class with Sydney Millage.
Women in Church-Based Crisis Advocacy Ministry
This content is to be used in conjunction with the December 2020 Master Class with Ann Maree Gowdsward
Trauma-Informed Batterer Confrontation with Greg Wilson.
This content is to be used in conjunction with the November 2020 Master Class with Counselor Greg Wilson
Post Abuse Care with Jonathon Holmes and Melissa Affolter
This content is to be used in conjunction with October 2020 PeaceWorks University Master Class: "Post Abuse Care" with Jonathan Holmes and Melissa Affolter. Visit ChrisMoles.org for additional resources.
Understanding Temptation with Pastor Mark Shaw.
This content is to be used in conjunction with the September Master Class featuring Pastor and Addiction counselor Mark Shaw
Building Trust with Victims of Domestic Abuse Notes
This content is to be used in conjunction with the August 2020 PeaceWorks University Master Class: Building Trust with Victims of Domestic Abuse with Darby Strickland.
ReStoried:
This content is to be used in conjunction with July 2020 PeaceWorks University Master Class: "A Look at ReStoried: A Support Group for Victims from Fieldstone Counseling" with Melissa Affolter.
Forgiveness/Trust Tree: This content has been adapted with permission from the original author, Sydney Millage, author of Sanctuary: Hope and Help for Victims of Domestic Abuse, and is intended to be used in conjunction with June 2020 PeaceWorks University Master Class: "Forgiveness, Don’t Rush It” with Sydney Millage.
Advocacy
This resource is intended to introduce the basics of domestic abuse advocacy.
Does God Hate Divorce?
This kind of divorce, where a man abandons his wife is the kind of divorce God hates, not all divorce.
The Lived Experience of Abuse Notes
This document provides the notes associated with the March 2020 Master Class with Brad Hambrick, “The Lived Experience of Abuse.”
Domestic Abuse Intervention Team Breakdown
This document provides an example of a domestic abuse intervention team and the potential roles and responsibilities involved. PWU members can download and edit this document for their own personal use.
Theology of Abuse Info-graphic
Based on the January 2020 Masterclass with Dr. Jeremy Pierre on a theology of abuse.
Church Based Response Worksheet
This worksheet is based on material from Pastor Chris’ Masterclass.
Littlest Victims
Handout that compliments our Master Class with Darby Strickland
Stages of Change for Survivors/Victims
Handout that compliments our Master Class with Summer Vinson Berger
Domestic Abuse and Marriage counseling handout. Here are some questions to consider concerning counseling for couples where abuse is present.
Evidenced Repentance Worksheet
This is a tool used by Pastor Chris in the Men of Peace program to promote discussion and further teaching on the process of change.
Why Do Some Abuse Victims not Cry Out Info-Graphic
From Desire to Sin
Here is an example of a homework assignment I use within Men of Peace.
Options for Victims
Unfortunately, leaving the home does not guarantee safety. In fact, violence may escalate as an abuser tries to coerce the victim into reconciliation or retaliate because she left. Abusive men who believe they “own” their partners justify retaliation because of the ultimate betrayal or humiliation they endured as a result of her leaving.
“Who do you say I am” Info-graphic
“But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.”
Fear
"We may not be able to avoid suffering in this life, but we do have a choice in how it will affect us. If we allow improper fear to rule us, the trials of life will devastate and overwhelm us.”
You Are Loved
"He willingly came and suffered because of His love for you."
Hope: We serve a God who specializes in redemption.
Scriptures regarding financial responsibility
Scriptures Regarding a Husband’s Responsibility
Scripture that speaks to Emotional, and Verbal Abuse
God Hates Abuse and Abusers
Here is an info-graphic of five Biblical descriptions of God's response to abuse.
Six Descriptions of Violent and Abusive People
Here is an info-graphic six Biblical descriptions of abusive people.
Good Tree / Equality Wheel Info graphic
Here is an info-graphic comparing the equality wheel with the tree model.
Power and Control Info-Graphic
Here is an info-graphic comparing the power and control wheel with the tree model.
Advocate QUESTIONNAIRE
This is a tool I use to gather information from a victim regarding a man's use of abusive actions.
Behavior Inventory
This is a tool I use to gather information regarding a man's use of abusive actions.
Ten Biblical counselors who speak well on issues of abuse
MARCH 2018
Teen Dating Violence Info-Graphic
February 2018
E-book "God's protection of Women"
by Herb Vander Lugt
Find this free resource as well as many other titles from Our Daily Bread Ministries at https://discoveryseries.org/
"In the following pages Herb Vander Lugt, long time pastor and senior editor for Radio Bible Class opens the Bible to show that Moses, Jesus, and Paul all recognize that some marital conditions are worse than divorce."
E-book "When Words" Hurt by Jeff Olson
Find this free resource as well as many other titles from Our Daily Bread Ministries at https://discoveryseries.org/
The destructive power of words can be a crushing force in a marriage—or in any relationship. In this booklet, counselor Jeff Olson helps you get a better understanding of the way words can be used as an instrument of building up or a weapon of tearing down.
E-Book "When Violence Comes Home" by Tim Jackson
Find this free resource as well as many other titles from Our Daily Bread Ministries at https://discoveryseries.org/
Spousal abuse is one of the most rapidly growing problems in our culture today—even within the church. Gain insight into the causes and effects of marital abuse and find out how you can respond with godly intervention, as co-authors Tim Jackson and Jeff Olson offer help for both victims and offenders.
E-Book "When Power is Misused" by Jeff Olson
Find this free resource as well as many other titles from Our Daily Bread Ministries at https://discoveryseries.org
Being strong is an essential God-given component of masculinity; however, using that strength to dominate, bully, and hurt others becomes a misuse of the good thing God has given. Counselor Jeff Olson uses the examples of biblical characters to help you understand where, how and why power can be abused. Discover your true strength and how you can use it for good rather than for evil.
Safety Plan From Focus Ministries